When I wanted to be Gabby.
Pandantic [they/them]
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Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialtoUnited States | News & Politics@midwest.social•US citizen arrested during ICE raid in what family describes as ‘kidnapping’English5·10 days agoSome preliminary research: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deportation_of_Americans_from_the_United_States
Several of them on this list received compensation after bringing a case against the government.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialtoUnited States | News & Politics@midwest.social•US citizen arrested during ICE raid in what family describes as ‘kidnapping’English4·10 days agoFrom the article:
While it’s not yet clear how many citizens have been affected by the administration’s attack on immigrant communities, a government report found that between 2015 and 2020, Ice erroneously deported at least 70 US citizens, arrested 674 and detained 121.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How dumb of an idea would it be to become a throuple?English81·10 days agoOpening up your relationship to another is tricky - you have to have immense trust in all involved. Do you trust that this guy isn’t just trying to get your wife? Do you trust that your wife isn’t just trying to get another man in the bed or transitioning over to him? Do you trust yourself to not be jealous when he takes her to bed (or goes on a one-on-one date)? If any of these questions gave you a little twinge of sick in your gut, that means you need to explore that - is it something you can overcome with conversations and agreed limits or is it too deep?
I was in a triad and it took some work to get over my jealousy (which I had in all my previous relationships and was not healthy anyway). However, it was a really rewarding experience - I had a same-gender partner to do things with, being with two people in bed is fun, and when things went bad with one partner, I had another one to emotionally support me and help me work through it before having a conversation with the other.
However, again, you have to trust that everyone has the others’ best interests at heart because there’s definitely the potential for one to try and turn the other against you if they aren’t trustworthy.
Good luck!
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto Software Gore@lemmy.world•Vending machine having a strokeEnglish3·11 days agoIt’s trying to communicate something!
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto World News@lemmy.world•Hyper-realistic baby dolls spark panic and legislation in BrazilEnglish35·15 days agoTwo things:
The controversy reached a disturbing peak on 6 June, when a man slapped a four-month-old baby on the head, claiming he had mistaken the infant for one of the dolls. He is out on bail, and the baby is reportedly doing well.
And:
The wave of controversy appears to have been ridden by politicians on the right: according to the news website UOL, all bills presented in May concerning reborn dolls were proposed by rightwing and far-right lawmakers.
“If a topic is trending, these politicians will propose laws about it even if they make no sense,” said Kalil, who also coordinates a research group about the Brazilian far right.
She highlights the timing: the country’s leading far-right figure, former president Jair Bolsonaro, is now on trial for an attempted coup and, after a prior ruling by the electoral court, is already barred from standing in next year’s elections.
“So there is also an element of grabbing attention and pushing an agenda, especially when the right wing camp is in crisis over Bolsonaro’s trial and no one knows who will emerge as their new leader,” she said.
Hmm… 🤔
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialtoUnited States | News & Politics@midwest.social•Silicon Valley Executives Join the Army as Officers. The men will get to skip the usual process of taking a Direct Commissioning Course and won’t need to complete the Army Fitness Test.English63·18 days agoThe Army said in a press release that the four executives are Shyam Sankar, CTO at Palantir; Andrew Bosworth, CTO at Meta; Kevin Weil, Chief Product Officer of OpenAI; and Bob McGrew, an advisor at Thinking Machines Lab and former Chief Research Officer for OpenAI.
The four men are being commissioned at the high rank of lieutenant colonel as part of a program called Detachment 201: The Army’s Executive Innovation Corps.
Anyone else find this extremely worrying?
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What was the strangest reason you got in trouble in school?English15·30 days ago2nd grade, the meanest teacher I ever had got mad at me for using a colorful pen to write on my classwork. In front of the class, she told me to “never bring that pen back to school.” This was a new pen that I had just bought - the kind with multiple colors inside and I wanted it for my babysitter’s after school so I could use it on the Spirograph - so I said, “Can’t I just keep it in my backpack? I go to my babysitter’s…” and that’s where she cut me off and proceeded to yell at me in front of the whole class and made me sit out for recess for “talking back”. Since I had “lunch detention”, I had to eat last, but I had never been in big trouble before and I cried the whole recess and, by the time my lunch came I couldn’t eat from crying so they called my mom to talk me into eating.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL the mysterious Alien father in Out of this World was voiced by Burt ReynoldsEnglish4·1 month agoWow, I’ve been trying to think of the name of this show forever. I remember her getting her powers taken away and the mom dumped spaghetti over her head to make her use it.
I still wish I had these powers and do the time freeze gesture sometimes.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto Technology@lemmy.world•lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this monthEnglish25·1 month agoSad to hear this. I liked the people I’ve met from lemm.ee and the hands-off approach to defederation that the instance had.
I see your dad values efficiency in his communications.
Interestingly, hanitizer is what I call the sanitizing stuff you put on you hands.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto memes@lemmy.world•It's like cat pictures but with owlsEnglish9·1 month agoNext step: SHARE THE ANTIQUE MEMES!!
Things I’ve learned from Superbowl: top: snowy owl. Middle: Great horned owl. Last: idk anon6789 will have to tell you.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto memes@lemmy.world•It's like cat pictures but with owlsEnglish10·1 month agoShout out to @anon6789@lemmy.world who does their best for owls irl and lemmy. Thanks for all you do to bring us bored humans the owl-based serotonin we seek. 🥰
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Do you browse hexbear or have an account in hexbear?English27·2 months agoThey are the only instance I know of with an active mutual aid comm.
In 2000, Windows put itself in the trash.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto United States | News & Politics@lemmy.ml•RFK Jr. says he’s working to stop food stamps buying soda and candyEnglish16·2 months ago“If you really care about the nutrition piece of making people healthy, can we talk about how there are not enough grocery stores within walking distance for individuals? Can we talk about the high price of vegetables and eggs?” Plata-Nino said. “If you really care about this issue, look at the systemic root causes.”
That’s socialism.
Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.socialto Software Gore@programming.dev•Very underrated song.English8·2 months agoWAKE UP
GRAB YOUR PHONE AND DO A LITTLE CHANGE UP
Spotify Link: https://open.spotify.com/track/6uoccjn6gLDixD0EKYH3AY
As a side note: Any interest in a bot for the music subs that pulls in links from all the different listening platforms?
I lived in a relatively nice apartment that had a problem with the front door closing. I once found a baby mouse in my bag of chips, caught another one by hand because its tail was peaking out from under my shelf, and ended up catching about 15 in total (one actually got in my mouse’s cage).