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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I think I (and many others) under value dates. It’s about building trust and genuinely liking the person as well. I’m kinda not into “hookups” i.e. you meet someone on Grindr jerk each other off then never see each other again.

    The anticipation, genuinely having a good time with whatever you’re doing, then you can’t keep your hands off each other in the car/uber/bus home. I used to have that with my gf, not really anymore unfortunately :/




  • If by guilty you mean seems disgusting when not jerking off, or seems somehow “wrong” it’s definitely watersports. I’m a switch so I both imagine me pissing on people and getting pissed on.

    For me it’s definitely about power, I have a friend who’s into scat (no kinkshaming, not my thing, but it’s very common trust me lol) who, ironically, has to kind of “fake” being into bdsm because the vast majority of people are into scat in the power play way, but he isn’t, he just likes that fetish on its own more or less.

    I’m not really like that, for me its all about the power exchange. Like I don’t think I’d enjoy it outside of a bdsm scene or dynamic.