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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • It’s not been a good week tbh…

    Had a very rough patch with my partner that we’re trying to work through, but it’s tough.

    A lot of tears, some minor self harm, emotions on an erratic seesaw.

    Weekend plans are some shopping, see my new nephew, some time with my daughters and preparations for vacation next week.






  • Speaking of that instance… has there been any progress on federating with them again?

    I was surprised to see little talk about Donald’s Jan6th charges on my feed, but after flipping accounts I realised most of the chatter was going on over there.

    I don’t particularly mind if I need a dedicated LW account… but it would be nice to be able to keep my posts consolidated under this one.






  • Yes, when I’m out with my partner I have a preference to wear my collar.

    I’ve never had anyone comment about it or actively noticed a second glance scenario.

    I did have a staff member in hotel reception call me by my pet name instead of my actual name when they looked at it once…

    That said wearing it more often than not over the past year has incurred a fair amount of wear and tear.

    I recently picked up a couple of cute chokers to wear out and about instead though for casual use, with the collar explicitly for kinky events only.

    Less risk to my collar, and still have the same secure feeling of the binding around my neck.