Mike Dulak grew up Catholic in Southern California, but by his teen years, he began skipping Mass and driving straight to the shore to play guitar, watch the waves and enjoy the beauty of the morning. “And it felt more spiritual than any time I set foot in a church,” he recalled.

Nothing has changed that view in the ensuing decades.

“Most religions are there to control people and get money from them,” said Dulak, now 76, of Rocheport, Missouri. He also cited sex abuse scandals in Catholic and Southern Baptist churches. “I can’t buy into that,” he said.

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    1 year ago

    Being queer I see a lot of the people I know deal with this broken part of them

    A lot of those who flee from religion do so as true refugees

    This is what I fear most. But it happens every day. Most Christian’s paths don’t start until they leave the church and most never do.

    The reason queer communities are tight knit is because they realize that people can’t exist without some kind of family and if you don’t have one you make one from scratch.

    I am glad to read this. Communities are a big part of growth. I think the modern Christianity lost that bit somewhere along the way.

    I personally hope Christians use the blowback as a way to reconnect to the core principles of their faith and reflect on the precepts of radical kindness at the core of Jesus’s teachings.

    They will, the problem is it will take time. I just wish we didn’t have to hurt everyone seeking that growth.