So, kids are gone, ex and I are no longer together (hence ex i guess lol) and I still find I over cook, I try to use less but it seems if I cook much more than a box of macaroni its too much. Sure I save leftovers, but one can only eat so much leftovers.
How have you dealt with over cooking? Or maybe I’m the only one?
I’m not an empty nester but due to food allergies my wife and I eat different things. I find a good kitchen scale to be a hard requirement. Just take your recipe and scale it down. For pasta, I weigh the entire box, divide by four, weigh out and cook that fourth.
I think you have just single handedly solved world hunger with your pasta weighing method
All credit goes to that dude in the Bible that managed to feed everyone with a single fish, loaf of bread and jug of wine. Not a lot of people realize that Jesus invented hors d’oeuvres. Holy tapas!
I had a pasta box that once said “get a handful of noodles. If it’s this big, that’s X many people” with a bunch of circles on the back of the box. and I just memorized how it felt in my hand.
I don’t really consider food I cook to be leftovers. It’s just prepping ahead. That means I don’t have to cook tomorrow.
Call it whatever you want, but you can still only eat the same thing for so many meals in a row. Like, after I have had something three times in the same week, I’m not even even enjoying it anymore. Freezing it so I can eat it later when I’m not bored of the flavor is great, but not everything is good after being frozen.
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Freeze leftovers. If food is too much, put 1-2 meals in a freezer-ready container, put it away. Eat it a few weeks/months later when you’re too lazy to cook.
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Measure ingredient amounts. Usually, I don’t bother, but if I don’t want leftovers, it’s necessary.
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Some dishes freeze well, so those leftovers can be turned into future meal prep. I liked freezing my chili in silicone muffin tins, then one or two thawed chili pucks was a perfect last-minute meal when I didn’t feel like cooking.
I had to work on this issue. I used to massively overcook. My house was always the place people just showed up. I had two kids, friends, family, so I was constantly ready to feed an army. Now one is out of the house, the other isn’t home most of the time and husband works evenings. We don’t have company like we used to before Covid, so unannounced guests happen rarely.
I have to be conscious at all times about what I’m cooking. First I had to admit that my perception of how much food I needed was just wrong and could not be trusted. I started using recipes - even for things I know how to make- purely to reference serving sizes. And when all else failed, however much I felt I needed to make, I’d just make half of that
It took some practice but now I make reasonable sized meals and have few leftovers.
Buy and make smaller portions? Start trading around leftovers with neighbors and friends?
I have been making smaller portions for sure, but giving the leftovers away is a good idea
I like the sharing because it’s a good way to keep up social relations with others. “Hey I got some extra food, can I drop off some for you and we’ll catch up for a bit?” Plus people will return the favor and drop by with free food.
Cook less.
Orrrr
Cook more. Just cook for a weeks worth of food and freeze the left overs.
Smaller pans may help because it forces you to cook smaller amounts.
Another possible thing to try is to cook 1 pot dishesI’m not an empty nester just live alone but I just make enough for 2/3 meals so I can have days off from cooking. If a recipe serves like 6/8 I cut all the ingredient measurements in half. I don’t really do box mac and cheese as a side because it’s too much for just me. I suppose you could try making half a box at a time but I don’t know how well the powder would keep.
That’s what the freezer is for. I still cook for four, because most ingredients are packed in a way that favors making a meal for four people, but that just means there are two helpings that can get into the freezer for another day.
Lunch the next day. I fail to see the problem. It’s a massive time saver. You need to join a meal prep community to fully appreciate it! It’s a time and money saver
Find an elderly friend nearby you can share with?
Or a young friend. Or a friend around the same age.
Or dog, age irrelevant, just no alliums
I start almost every meal sauteing alliums. The dog can eat out of a can.
Just start feeding the neighbour teenager. Bottomless pit just waiting for all your spare cooking.
Or, halve the recipes. If you don’t cook enough you can always top up with a snack.
I freeze the leftovers, and don’t necessarily eat your same leftovers multiple days in a row. So if I cook three days in a row, that’s probably enough leftovers to rotate between three for a total of nearly two weeks.
I mostly cook stews and sauces, and cook fresh rice or pasta to go with it, because these foods tend to freeze really well.
I’ve found smaller portions to be a waste of time. It takes just as long, but you don’t get as much out of it.
Yes, the freezer is one key. I’d actually like to get a chest freezer too.
Another trick is re-use. I’ll cook a steak, save half for stir fry, ramen, nachos, sandwich, etc. A chicken gets legs and thighs used for dinner, breasts for chicken salad, and bones and bits for soup.
Cans are also great. They serve a dual purpose of emergency-kit food and (since they eventually need to be rotated) super-lazy meals. I generally keep, maybe 20 various cans of chilli, soup, beans, spam, tuna, crab, tomatoes, etc. and make a point of using a couple every month, just to keep things from getting too old.
The real difficulty I run into is making good salads. It takes just as much time to make salad for six as for two. I often just settle for the bagged stuff, but it feels wasteful and uninspired.
