Both, but on the condition it’s a bit more nuanced than that. Are we talking matters of culture shock, accidents, misunderstandings, a failure of restraint, things you regret later, things that sounded good at the time, things done under duress, things done while drunk, things meant to be humorous, etc.? Some things are circumstantial as opposed to up to any human factor, and these are more able to be looked past. But I’m also not going to yield every time someone who is drunk does something they typically wouldn’t do when sober.